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Egg Shells

I am SOO sorry! I won’t have my tutorial up tonight :( the file is not uploading in the correct format…. I am hoping it will be working by morning, if not afternoon! So check back!
On another note, I just got the invitation to my own bachelorette party next week :) My maid of honor, Lauren is throwing me the party and my sissies and friends have been helping but let me tell you, I am so excited. I told you guys a while ago how I kind of went through and cleaned out people in my life.. got rid of the ones who weren’t true friends. I love all my friends that are left and I can’t wait to party with them!
My cousin as she was planning it asked me if it was okay if she made the party (for lack of better words) a ‘raunchy’ one. (only meaning we have (man part) shaped cookies, play pin the (fire-hose) on the fireman, ya know the usual bachelorette party silliness) and I said … duh. Then she asked what if someone gets offended? And I said I don’t think I have friends like that.
(obviously there is an age for those silly things aka when you are getting married :) for you younger girls reading this!)
But I can’t stand to be around people who get offended so easily. A while ago I got this comment on my blog in response to this post (me saying my hair was greasy and I looked like a homeless person):
I sent a screen shot to my fiance and we laughed our heads off. We do that a lot to the silly things people get so worked up over. Its like we are all walking on egg shells just waiting for an opportunity to get offended and call someone out. Especially having a blog that is open for the public, anytime I write I feel like I am walking on egg shells and constantly have to re word things as to not offend the people who think it is the worst thing on earth to say “I look like a homeless person” etc.
Not saying we should all not have filters, because we should, and there are some things that should never be joked about or taken lightly. But have you guys seen Jimmy Kimmel’s “I told my kid I ate all their halloween candy again” video from this year? It is hilarious. And the last few will melt your heart.But read the comments below. People are calling him out saying he is cruel for doing such a thing to kids and that the kids are ridiculous for crying about their candy being gone. See what I mean?
Life is fun, things are funny. So lets laugh about them.

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25 Responses to “Egg Shells”

  1. Sarah Cenatiempo December 5, 2012 at 11:12 am Permalink

    No matter how lightly you tread, someone is always going to get offended… you can never please everyone, nor should you have to try. As long as you know what you’re putting out there isn’t truly offensive, don’t stress :) some people need to learn how to have a sense of humor!

  2. Sharron December 5, 2012 at 11:25 am Permalink

    Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter. – Dr. Suess

    Amber you are amazing. Love your blog and you. Keep up the good work. Thanks!
    -Sharron

  3. AshBarnum December 5, 2012 at 11:30 am Permalink

    Bahahahaha WOW! People these days LOVE to throw around the word ignorant.

    Definition: Lacking knowledge or awareness in general.

    Seems Ann is being a little “ignorant” herself by lacking in the knowledge of what a joke or an expression means. I think before people can comment on the internet they need to take a nap and then hug a puppy. The world would be a much happier place.

  4. blondeeambition December 5, 2012 at 11:35 am Permalink

    amen sister! :) keep doing what your doing, clearly if people hated your comments you wouldn’t have so many followers for this fabulous blog. :)

  5. Sophie December 5, 2012 at 11:45 am Permalink

    People just love to bitch don’t they! haha A person should only filter their self so much so I’m glad you know that! :)

  6. Francesca December 5, 2012 at 12:28 pm Permalink

    I like a lot of your posts, but this one is probably my favorite. Some people can just be so touchy and it can really just take all the fun out a situation. I agree that life is funny and everyone should learn to just laugh and roll with the funny!

  7. Lauren December 5, 2012 at 12:29 pm Permalink

    HAHAH! Thank you so much for that!! It gave me a nice laugh! :) Have a wonderful day! You’re so beautiful!!

  8. Julia Engel December 5, 2012 at 12:48 pm Permalink

    I think people love having any reason to complain. I honestly will never understand why someone would a rude comment, but I love your attitude- Just have a nice laugh! :) Have fun at your bachelorette party love- You will have a blast!

    xo, Julia

  9. Erica+Matson December 5, 2012 at 1:06 pm Permalink

    I agree completely.

  10. Abigail Robertson December 5, 2012 at 1:30 pm Permalink

    amen, sister. and let’s face it…. homeless people have greasy hair. get over it, ann.

  11. Kayla December 5, 2012 at 1:31 pm Permalink

    You can’t please everybody!!! Life is much better when we all can laugh about situations! :)

  12. Audrey December 5, 2012 at 1:58 pm Permalink

    dude. amen! bahahaha!

  13. Omaof1 December 5, 2012 at 5:04 pm Permalink

    I love your blog…you’re doing a great job :-)

  14. Heather Musumeci December 5, 2012 at 7:59 pm Permalink

    I love your blog! Never apologize for your own thoughts and beliefs…I give you a lot of credit for putting them all out there for everyone to read!

  15. KristaMae December 6, 2012 at 9:39 am Permalink

    Don’t feel like you’re walking on egg shells when you write! The best part about blogging is that its your blog and you can write whatever you want to!! Love reading your blog and keep it up! Have fun at your bachelorette! :)

  16. eliza jane December 6, 2012 at 12:41 pm Permalink

    hey chica malika, we don’t know each other… at all. but i feel like that’s ok, cause who really does in this blogging world anyways right? but i am SO excited for your wedding! i got married two years ago, and it was THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE! even the stress of it all, i just loved it, and anything crazy that happens you end up loving a week later! so enjoy this time with crazy planning and i CANNOT wait to see pictures of yours and david’s special day. it will be amazing! i am truly jelly that you get to experience your wedding so soon, i wish i could have mine all over again!

  17. Jaimie December 6, 2012 at 9:30 pm Permalink

    This Ann chick must wash her hair everyday. Otherwise she would understand! Haha.

  18. emily December 6, 2012 at 11:30 pm Permalink

    I’m pretty sure you know by now that girls of all ages are searching for something OFF about you. You are a smart, SILLY,beautiful, and friendly girl. It drives some people crazy. Glad you are laughing it off. h
    Have a wonderful Wedding! Sorry about the shower, I wasn’t in town!

  19. emily December 6, 2012 at 11:32 pm Permalink

    I’m pretty sure you know by now that girls of all ages are searching for something OFF about you. You are a smart, SILLY,beautiful, and friendly girl. It drives some people crazy. Glad you are laughing it off. h
    Have a wonderful Wedding! Sorry about the shower, I wasn’t in town!

  20. Brooke December 7, 2012 at 3:57 am Permalink

    Beautiful! I wish I had longer hair to style like that!

    I am doing a Holiday Giveaway from Sephora! Hope you stop by and enter!

    Happy Holidays,

    Brooke♥ ❤ ❥

  21. Jessica December 7, 2012 at 6:44 am Permalink

    Amber I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog :) you should always write how you feel!! Ignore those ignorant & stupid comments!! Ppl who write horrible things to you are just jealous ;)

  22. Jessica December 7, 2012 at 6:45 am Permalink

    Amber I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog :) you should always write how you feel!! Ignore those ignorant & stupid comments!! Ppl who write horrible things to you are just jealous ;)

  23. Sean and Sierra December 7, 2012 at 10:14 am Permalink

    I know exactly why people (especially women), like to get so “offended” by you. You are beautiful and have so much going for you. They are jealous and while they should just stay away from your blog, they are looking for something to be “offended” by, because of their jealousy. I love reading your blog! You are beautiful, funny and have great beauty and fashion tips! But you have the right attitude. Keep the positive people in your life. =)

  24. Amber Fillerup December 8, 2012 at 10:07 am Permalink

    Hey everyone!! Thanks so much for your sweet comments!! Means so much :) Love you all!!! xo

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